Victim or Victor?
There is a vast difference between a genuine “Scandal,” which rightly defines an attempt to cause one to fall from the faith, and is in Itself a sin, and an “Insult,” which is an unwise remark that may be received as though it were a sin, but in reality it is not.
The Insult is handled with Bible Love for the one insulting you, and then you get over it. The true Scandal may really be a sin, and then comes under Luke 17:3.
God help the Church of Jesus Christ to learn to cover insults with love.